Comments on: Why I Am Still Awake At This Hour http://jacobcoy.com/blog/2009/11/why-i-am-still-awake-at-this-hour/ Blogging About Stuff!! Sun, 23 May 2010 21:40:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: DXEndar http://jacobcoy.com/blog/2009/11/why-i-am-still-awake-at-this-hour/comment-page-1/#comment-65 DXEndar Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:46:51 +0000 http://jacobcoy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-65 P.S. - I do like your work by the way. P.S. – I do like your work by the way.

]]> By: DXEndar http://jacobcoy.com/blog/2009/11/why-i-am-still-awake-at-this-hour/comment-page-1/#comment-64 DXEndar Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:45:29 +0000 http://jacobcoy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-64 Not that it’s exactly the same . . . but I kind of know the feeling. Want to know a secret ? I didn’t find a miracle solution. There wasn’t one ‘thing’ that made it all better. Slowly, one little thing at a time, I started to do better. And, after a couple of years and a lot of prayer . . . things were better then they had been. There was no fix for me. But someone told me to just focus on the little things at first. Just doing little things better each week, they start to add up after a while. You’re still gonna screw up, a lot if you’re like me, but if you LEARN something each time and then ACT on it (even a little bit) you’re on the way to (slowly) getting better. Things are crappy now, nothing will fix that all at once. But things do change . . . slowly they’ll get better. Just hang on till then. I know that sounds like crap, maybe it is . . . but that’s what a good friend of mine told me when I was going through crap and . . . in looking back on it now . . . they were right. Not that it’s exactly the same . . . but I kind of know the feeling. Want to know a secret ? I didn’t find a miracle solution. There wasn’t one ‘thing’ that made it all better. Slowly, one little thing at a time, I started to do better. And, after a couple of years and a lot of prayer . . . things were better then they had been.

There was no fix for me. But someone told me to just focus on the little things at first. Just doing little things better each week, they start to add up after a while. You’re still gonna screw up, a lot if you’re like me, but if you LEARN something each time and then ACT on it (even a little bit) you’re on the way to (slowly) getting better.

Things are crappy now, nothing will fix that all at once. But things do change . . . slowly they’ll get better. Just hang on till then. I know that sounds like crap, maybe it is . . . but that’s what a good friend of mine told me when I was going through crap and . . . in looking back on it now . . . they were right.

]]> By: DXEndar http://jacobcoy.com/blog/2009/11/why-i-am-still-awake-at-this-hour/comment-page-1/#comment-63 DXEndar Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:45:07 +0000 http://jacobcoy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-63 Wow, sounds a lot like my college days. I always seam to start stuff in plenty of time, but always ended up crunching at the last minute . . . angry that ONCE AGAIN I had left it to the last minute. And why, why did I do this ? I did it time and time again. I failed two semesters in a row because I felt the same way you did. Why do I screw up things all the time ? I didn’t feel that I was any good at my chosen profession, I was having problems with my parents, sister, friends, girlfriend . . . and I just kept making the same mistakes over and over . . . not realizing that I was doing it until it was too late. I failed two semesters (one full year) because my life felt like it was collapsing around me, I didn’t even feel like getting out of bed towards the end. Just skipped classes once I knew that I had screwed them up enough that the best I could pull was a C. Wow, sounds a lot like my college days. I always seam to start stuff in plenty of time, but always ended up crunching at the last minute . . . angry that ONCE AGAIN I had left it to the last minute. And why, why did I do this ? I did it time and time again. I failed two semesters in a row because I felt the same way you did. Why do I screw up things all the time ? I didn’t feel that I was any good at my chosen profession, I was having problems with my parents, sister, friends, girlfriend . . . and I just kept making the same mistakes over and over . . . not realizing that I was doing it until it was too late. I failed two semesters (one full year) because my life felt like it was collapsing around me, I didn’t even feel like getting out of bed towards the end. Just skipped classes once I knew that I had screwed them up enough that the best I could pull was a C.

]]> By: Rach-H http://jacobcoy.com/blog/2009/11/why-i-am-still-awake-at-this-hour/comment-page-1/#comment-62 Rach-H Mon, 16 Nov 2009 11:50:10 +0000 http://jacobcoy.com/blog/?p=165#comment-62 wow Jacob that's really deep and powerful, if you ever need to talk about anything you know that I am here for you x wow Jacob that's really deep and powerful, if you ever need to talk about anything you know that I am here for you x

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